Im 18 weeks pregnant and my husband a soldier left me with my mother in law and wont talk to me?

Im 18 weeks pregnant now. My husband was supposed to get deployed but he got in trouble and now hes facing a bad conduct discharge. we r married for a year now but started dating 2 years ago. we already have a son who is almost a year now. since he was supposed to get deployed i moved to my mother in law to another state. since he got in trouble for smokin weed he won t talk to me anymore. he completely ignores me. hes talking aggressively to me and he has a depression and anger management problem. he doe sn t ask me anything bout his son or the pregnantcy he would ask his mother. he would tell me i can do whatever the hell i want and could leave. now he wants a breake to see if he is missing me or if he really loves me. it s really pulling on my nervous cuz i had a high risk pregnancy before. and he would blame me for part of the problems and anger he has.